Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Sadness came today.....



This is the day that my brother-in-law needs to go back to Dubai for his work. He just arrived here last Wednesday and now he needs to go back for he only have 6 days vacation. It was so hard for him and his nieces to say goodbye and to all of us too. His nieces love him very much because of his generosity and the love itself that he is showing to them.
He needs to go to the airport at around 2 pm but because her nieces are at school, he waited for them to arrive to bid his goodbye. I was so surprised and got carried away because Kyl is crying so hard for his tito. She is so sad and hurt for her tito will be leaving them again for the fact that he just arrived last week. As for us, we really feel sad coz we still didn't have much time to spend together yet he needs to go back this fast.
It's really hard to keep the sadness. I can't even control myself. I also cried because he will be away again. He is so nice to us and we all feel the worries for him. That who will take good care of him when he's sick and if he have problems. But I know he can manage it. He's strong and intelligent. Still we can't do anything about it.That we still miss him but he needs to leave for us, for his family.
I really admire this person. He is one of a kind. His priority is his family rather than himself. All his plans is for his parents, siblings and nieces and that includes me. He wants me to go back to school to take up Nursing and it's a very big privilege for me. I'll take the opportunity, after all I want to go back to school rather than staying home.
It really hurts when someone who is very dear will be away for quite some time. It is so hard to adjust and so hard to move on. But it is his choice and for his own good so we need to be strong and wait for another 6 months for us to see him again. Goodbye Jules for now, till we see each other again......

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Innocence of a child


As i look back to my childhood, I realized, i miss a lot of it. I miss the freedom for everything. Free from sadness, fear, anger, and violence. I once a child who enjoys everything that I see and everything that I own. Who is satisfied in what i get and to my parents love and care.
How I wish I am still a child. Who has a simple life and simple needs. A perfect childhood that once i had is what i want to any child to have. The innocence of a child should not be taken until they themselves discover life as they grow. A child should be given importance as a child and a human being. That they have the right to enjoy their everyday life in a good and satisfying manner rather than abusing and using them in a bad way. Their childhood is their foundation in living. A great childhood means great life.
Now I wonder, How far does it go? As I see the deprived children on the streets. No food, no shelter, and no family to cling on. As young as them, they starve, no directions to go, and some, used by those animals who have bad intentions. Those children that should be in school, instead they are scattered everywhere to steal and sometimes kill. Are these the scenery that a child should see?
A child is an innocent one. That once you did not open her eyes to the real world, she will have no idea how dirty it is, how dreadful it is, and how sinful it is. Her innocence should remain as it is until the proper time will come that she is ready to come out in a world that's full of mystery and explore it with the guidance of love ones.

Saturday, September 5, 2009

YOUTH-the hope of the motherland...


The youths play an important role in our society. How? In many ways. For the fact that they are the hope of our motherland, they should be well motivated enough and guided accordingly. A good upbringing to them is one good foundation for their behaviors and dealings to the others.
Though the conditions of the youths are a little harder to manage, we should guide them in the right path in a way, they will be responsible enough for their future. On the other hand, there are youths who encounter and suffer due to the poverty that causes them of being neglect specially in education. There are some that are lack of guidance and lack of parents attention that causes them to be rebellious. These matters sometimes causes them to go in the wrong way. Some taking drugs, committing crimes and some of them, end up to the jail. How can we provide and prepare a successor in our country in this case?
Youths should always know their importance in the first place. They should be aware as early in their age what contribution they can provide for the best future. That in their hands lies the new beginning and changes for a better and compensated society.But for now, all that they need is a good example that later on, uses it as a guidance and a strong foundation.
We should also encourage them to be god fearing children and indulge them to sports as well. Though it is true that they also deserve their independence, still, specially to parents, need to supervise their daily activities. For this, we can monitor whether our youths are doing the right things or misled.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

health over food



You should always be aware that food is always connected to your health. Well, most of us are aware of it but there are still some who chooses food over health. Meaning, knowing that the food they are taking is not that healthy and can affect their health, still they pursue to take them due to the pleasure that they get.
Enjoyment of food can sometimes makes us forget the right diet that we should have. We prefer to eat lots of goodies than thinking what the right food to take. Those oily and not nutritious foods may cause addiction intake due to the tastes that we savor and enjoy. In return we gain much weight and food imbalance that later causes us problems connected to our body and health.
Though these foods gives us satisfaction,in return, we should also put some effort to reduce the fats and other unnecessary things that we got from them. We can enjoy any food that we wish for as long as we are also responsible for the outcome of it. Burn the fats and exercise. It is for your own good.
Bear in mind that keeping your body healthy is your own advantage. A healthy body and a healthy mind leads you to a better living. Be aware that the food we eat affects the reaction of our body and our reactions as well. Having a healthy body can always makes you on the go and helps you to have a sharper mind and a healthy lifestyle.