Your heart is still beating a bit faster, your skin is still tingling with sweat from a passionate encounter of satisfying sex. Now, what should you do next?
Before you settle on that, here`s a refresher on what happens inside your body right after sex:
* Sexual orgasm releases several feel-good hormones, among them prolactin and vesopressin, into our body. These hormones are linked to the feeling of sexual satisfaction. On the other hand, prolactine regulates our sleepy function. In a laboratory experiment, animal injected with prolactin hormone become sleepy afterwards. Somehow, this partly explains why most couple fall asleep after sex
* Sex is strenuous activity that makes the couple feel tired afterwards. Either they go to sleep to gain back strength or eat some snacks to replenish lost energy.
So what are some sexy things to do after an intimate romp? There are no right or wrong answer and really, there`s no set of rules to follow. But according to a marathon phone survey among married women, the following are some sexy things to do after love-making:
1.KISS
It`s the best way to express love and thanks to your mate upon putting up a good performance in bed. Besides, kissing feels very sexy and intimate.
2.READ A GOOD BOOK TOGETHER
You can take turns reading, and the act of listening to your mate`s voice can have an endearing effect on the relationship.
3.CUDDLE
Women find it very comforting to hug and cuddle their mate right after sex. You can encourage your mate to do the same if you set the good example.
4.MAKE SOME MEALS
Since sex is physically exhausting, a meal afterwards makes a good respite. You can head to the kitchen and grab some goodies from the refrigerator. Or you can cook easy-to-prepare snacks. It would double the fun if both of you do the cooking together.
5.BODY MASSAGE
Take turns in giving each other a good and relaxing body massage. Aside from improving blood circulation, a loving body massage has been shown as an effective way to nourish and enhance your marital relationship.
6.ENJOY THE VIEW OUTSIDE
You can open up the bedroom window and, with arms around each other, enjoy the horizon`s view together. Make sure you put on some clothes first or passers-by will be very scandalized to see a half-naked couple looking out of the window.
7.LISTEN TO ROMANTIC MUSIC
Some couples find it very sexy to listen to romantic music together. Plop your sentimental CD`s into the tape desk and sit back. It`s a good way to reminisce about your courtship and romantic past.
8.RECORD YOUR FEELINGS
If you want, you can grab a journal and write down all the happy feelings you encountered right after sex. As a variation, you can simply use a tape recorder and record whatever sentiments you feel at that very moment. You can then listen to it after a few days. You can keep the flames of passion burning this way.
9.SURF THE INTERNET TOGETHER
With portable laptops becoming affordable these days, you can surf the internet while in bed. Doing activities together, such as web browsing with your mate, can surely strengthen your marriage to last for a lifetime.
10.INTIMATE PILLOW TALK
You can talk about things that turn you on, that pushes you towards orgasm, or specific positions that you find sexually satisfying.
1 comment:
nice tips . but i feel that jotting down on your journal after spending such an intimate time is quite a drab thing to do right?? just think about it.. after its over and you are lying in bed , you say, 'one sec honey', turn around and take your notebook, and start writing. hehe.. and he would be like.. 'eh??', i was wondering what would his thoughts be?? hehe.. :P
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